Overcoming codependency can be a painful process as well as freeing. The past few years has been a lot of letting go for me. Letting go of attachment to things, situations, and people. I used to find things that would deflect my pain (emotional and physical) But nothing works anymore. I can’t deflect, ignore or stuff down feelings. It feels like a crucifixion of sorts. Reminds me of Jesus going through tremendous pain on the cross, but on the other side of the pain, He rose. And so can we. Though letting go is uncomfortable, it’s the path to freedom…
Creative Healing for Women
Inspirational messages
Saturday, April 6, 2024
Friday, December 22, 2023
Life lessons
We all get life lessons, whether we choose to acknowledge them or not. If we ignore them, I can promise you that they will continue to reappear. Some people think they have bad luck, but that's not really true. What they see as bad luck is actually the lesson they've been ignoring, popping back up again.
Monday, December 18, 2023
No more secrets
No one likes to talk about addiction or alcoholism.... It's a messy, shameful topic, but nonetheless, but most of us have been affected by this disease in some way or another, whether we want to admit it or not.
Sunday, December 10, 2023
Sunday, October 8, 2023
Self-will versus God's will
Sunday, October 1, 2023
A soulful life
Saturday, September 30, 2023
Letting go
Sunday, August 27, 2023
How recovery can heal loneliness
There were years that I felt very lonely, especially in my teen years. No matter what I did, I couldn’t make that feeling go away so I suffered in silence. I didn’t even tell my best friend or any of my family how I felt. It was my painful secret. It wasn’t until I found recovery that I began to feel a sense of belonging. Imagine my surprise when I heard people sharing things in meetings that I could relate to. They spoke in a language I understood. Feeling that sense of belonging though, took time. I had a lot of work to do, especially when it came to shame and self hatred. But what I know to be true today is that all things can be healed with the help of the program and God. Will be internally grateful that recovery gave me a life more beautiful than I could’ve ever imagined.
Thursday, June 8, 2023
Thursday, May 18, 2023
Sunday, May 7, 2023
Sunday, April 30, 2023
Peace and Serenity
Thursday, April 27, 2023
Empathy
Because our emotions rise from “self”, we think compassion/love is a feeling. However, compassion doesn’t have a feeling. I would describe it as quiet and kind. If we feel a surge of emotions towards a situation, it’s because we are being triggered. Being triggered means we have a wound that we haven’t addressed yet.
Wednesday, April 26, 2023
Trusting our lessons
Everyone that shows up in your life is a gift. You may not always like the package that the gift comes in, but nonetheless, every person has something valuable to teach you, otherwise they wouldn’t be here. Rather than make others wrong, you can ask yourself “What am I to learn from this experience”?