The way we begin to heal our pain (physical or emotional) is to give it a voice. We stop seeing pain as a character flaw. We come to understand that we all experience it. We push past our own shame and judgement by telling our story out loud. The moment we begin to share with others is the moment we are no longer suffering in silence...
Fear and self-will are the culprits that cause needless pain and suffering. Because we are afraid, we hold tightly to our ideas. We try to get life to go our way. And we avoid everything that makes us uncomfortable. However, in surrendering our personal desires and facing our deepest fears, we put an end to suffering...