Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Making changes

love taking photos of dragonflies...


I've become aware of how often I can lie to myself-
lying about my feelings by minimizing them.
I will hear myself saying things like...
"it doesn't matter" or "I don't really care",

when it really does. 

By doing that, I ignore my rights, my desires, my needs...

It's a pattern I've had all my life,

making myself less important than others.

Time for change!!!

I need to get more honest and treat myself kinder.

Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.”  

Iyanla Vanzant