| I wasn't ready to take down the tree yet | 
| so I took off the xmas ornaments | 
| and am turning it into a Valentine tree... | 
Control is a coping mechanism that we use when we are afraid of not getting our needs met. But the more we use control as a way to feel safe, the more insecure we become.
In surrendering control, we begin to find the places in ourselves which need love and healing...