It has taken me years to realize that the person I thought I was, was not me. It was the good little girl who just wanted everybody to be happy and who was hungry for love and acceptance. It was a set up for a lot of pain. Trying to be someone I wasn't, was exhausting. And feeling like it was my responsibility to make people happy was what lead me deeper into codependency. What about you? Do you feel safe to be you? Do you feel worthy of love without having to earn it? Feel free to leave your comments below. Would love to hear pieces of your story too...
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us Debbie. In my experience I was not the good little girl,instead I was rebellious. I dis not get the attention or love I so desired growing up and when I acted out I got a lot of attention. It spiraled me into a person I no longer liked. I was shameful and guilt ridden about the person i thought I was. Thankfully today I am learning that I am not that person, I am learning I am worth it and loved ❤️ I am forever thankful for your groups and wisdom as well as those who share. I am finding my tribe. Bless you
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your story. You have found your tribe and feel so blessed to be part of your journey moving forward. You're a wonderful person
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