We have this idea that we should be perfect, but humility is far more attractive. We are going to feel safer to be ourselves when we are with someone who is being honest about who they are. The most beautiful aspects about someone can be their honesty (you trust their words), their ability to be revealing (even when they feel awkward), their sense of curiosity (they are willing to ask questions rather than pretend to know all the answers), and can admit to their mistakes (with some humor)...