If you put someone on a pedestal or someone puts you there, it's a recipe for disaster. Being elevated to a level of perfection isn't realistic. Basically, it's ego playing out the role of being better than or less than. Either way, the illusion of a hero will eventually be shattered. Any relationship built on falsehood will not be sustainable.
Don't fill your empty void with fairy tales. See others for who they really are. Be honest with yourself about how you feel about them. And always be yourself so you attract people who are genuine in their affection for you.
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