If you were judged as a child,
there's a good chance you carry shame.
Shame can take us to a dark, icky place...
where we feel horrible about ourselves.
Blaming others can become a way...
we try to deflect this bad feeling.
But pointing fingers harms relationships.
Shame needs to be acknowledged and healed.
Otherwise it will project itself unto others...
over and over again.
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